Redefination of Life

Sometimes we may feel like a bug that has been flipped on its back. Our legs are flailing wildly in order to get us back on our feet. The harder we wiggle around, the more exhausted we become. Maybe we should consider just giving ourself a rest and wait for a breeze to come along and push us back over. Trust that we will be back on our feet soon enough. In fact, it may be good for us to lie there motionless for a while to absorb a bit of humor from ourself and our situation.

On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. But don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time.

Today as in 23/02/06 there was a Japanese Chamber of Trade and Industry, Malaysia (JACTIM) Career Fair. There were 12 participating companies. Since me and my dearie frens are all final year students, so we are supposed to attend this sort of things right…( I guess)…And by attending this career talk we will at least have a clearer view of what our future planning would be…right or not??? (I have no clue what so ever) So here we are, four girls (which still blur of what they really want to do after graduating) decided to go and have a look at this Career Fair. We only attend 2 career talk held by Sony and Renesas. After the talk, we decided to have a sneak peek on what’s going on in MPH a.k.a to see other companies’ booth. U know, just to get some information on the companies that participate today for future reference (incase we’re going for an interview held by that particular company in da future) (more…)

I received this email from one of my fren. The title is SUKA-SAYANG-CINTA which is equal to LIKE-CARE-LOVE. I think SAYANG=CARE, i might be wrong. Hehehe…so anyway this is sort of an assumption of LIKE vs CARE vs LOVE. After reading this article, i think my feelings for my ex only falls under CARE category and not LOVE yet since our relationship is too short for any feeling to bloom to another stage. Given it a second thought i don’t think he deserve the title BF or even the EX title since he doesn’t put a 100% commitment in our relationship. He knows it and that’s why he end it. Conclusion, our relationship was just a fling. So the next time people ask me if i had a BF, my answer would be NO i haven’t. I try to commit with someone but it turn out that i was just a rebounce. So NO, he’s not my BF what so ever. EX is even far from it. Sorry i haven’t got the English version of it but enjoy the article for those who can read BAHASA MALAYSIA.

• Saat kau MENYUKAI seseorang, kau ingin memilikinya untuk
  keegoisanmu sendiri
• Saat kau MENYAYANGI seseorang, kau ingin sekali membuatnya bahagia
  dan bukan untuk dirimu sendiri
• Saat kau MENCINTAI seseorang, kau akan melakukan apapun untuk
  kebahagiaannya walaupun kau harus mengorbankan jiwamu
• SUKA adalah saat ia menangis, kau akan berkata “Sudahlah, jangan
  menangis.”
• SAYANG adalah saat ia menangis dan kau akan menangis bersamanya
• CINTA adalah saat ia menangis dan kau akan membiarkannya menangis
  dibahumu sambil berkata, “Mari kita selesaikan masalah ini bersama-sama.”
• SUKA adalah saat kau melihatnya kau akan berkata, “Ia sangat
  cantik dan menawan.”
• SAYANG adalah saat kau melihatnya kau akan melihatnya dari hatimu
  dan bukan matamu
• CINTA adalah saat kau melihatnya kau akan berkata, “Buatku dia
  adalah anugerah terindah yang pernah Tuhan berikan padaku..”
• Pada saat orang yang kau SUKA menyakitimu, maka kau akan marah dan
  tak mau lagi bicara padanya
• Pada saat orang yang kau SAYANG menyakitimu, engkau akan menangis
  untuknya

• Pada saat orang yang kau CINTAI menyakitimu, kau akan berkata,”Tak
  apa dia hanya tak tahu apa yang dia lakukan.”
• Pada saat kau SUKA padanya, kau akan MEMAKSANYA untuk menyukaimu
• Pada saat kau SAYANG padanya, kau akan MEMBIARKANNYA MEMILIH
• Pada saat kau CINTA padanya, kau akan selalu MENANTINYA dengan
  setia dan tulus…
• SUKA adalah kau akan menemaninya bila itu menguntungkan
• SAYANG adalah kau akan menemaninya di saat dia memerlukan
• CINTA adalah kau akan menemaninya di saat bagaimanapun keadaannya
• SUKA adalah hal yang menuntut
• SAYANG adalah hal memberi dan menerima
• CINTA adalah hal yang memberi dengan rela

I like to try out these sort of test. Just for fun. Nothing else. So here’s what my name tell about me and i guess everything that is zodiacal, astrological and now acrophonological tells alot about me. Am i that easy to predict??? Nahhhh….

First Name:
You tend to be critical of yourself, not always expressing your true desires. You have an interest in health and health matters. You have a great deal of loyalty to those you love. You have much inner strength. You enjoy a challenge. You can take thought-directed actions.

Middle Name:
You are an 11th hour person, always succeeding just in the nick of time. The lesson of money is prominent in your life. You have much enthusiasm with a driving attitude toward achievement in life. You are naturally friendly. You can be the life of the party. You are relatively demonstrative in your affections. You enjoy being stroked verbally and physically. You are compassionate, highly imaginative and creative. You have a need to be up front.

Last Name:
You want to be productive and feel useful, and enjoy helping solve problems. You like to be busy and not waste time. You are soft-hearted with a charitable nature. You need to learn the true value of material possessions. You have a natural protection in life. You are always saved - especially from yourself. You have a need to be up front. You need to learn when to let go. You have a need to be up front. You have a discriminating nature coupled with perseverance and family pride. There is a tendency toward self-undoing so you must learn to accept the gift of protection from the ‘Gods’. You need to learn the meaning of true giving. You have good recuperative abilities. You are determined. You need to learn to give and receive love for love’s sake. You have a need to be assured of affection.